Last time I wrote how being driven by distraction (Read article here) causes us to respond to impulse and urgency to the detriment of self care and relationships.  This has a domino effect in that, when self care and relationships are not adequately met, we find ourselves driven by needs. We often do this unconsciously – how many times do we just need to take a break, go for a walk or rest but instead we decide to eat something? Even though needs may go unnoticed they do have a strong influence on our decisions. Another affect of meeting needs unconsciously is that this causes us to supersede making decisions based on our values – those things we say are strong convictions in our life. Instead we just do what will bring comfort or peace temporarily.

Finally, when we are driven by impulse and urgency this usually means that our plans and actions are based on our own power, strength, wisdom and thinking rather than the Holy Spirit. So how can we change and build a foundation where we are operating from a Holy Spirit directed life?

As Christians our first and primary need is intimacy with God. This is expressed beautifully in John 15 where Jesus calls Himself the Vine and we are branches drawing life and nourishment from Him to bear fruit that lasts for the glory of God the Father. Jesus reminds us that without Him we can do nothing. Did you read that . . . He said nothing. The greek word for nothing has the connotation of worthless, meaningless or unimportant. The phrase “cannot do” has the idea of “capability to accomplish” and is the same word from which we get dynamite. Now we all do things and accomplish all types of things everyday, right? So how is that possible if Jesus said, ‘Without me you can do nothing’? I believe what He was getting at is that we can accomplish nothing of eternal value or significance, the fruit that lasts for God’s glory, apart from Him.

“Yes, I am the vine; you are the branches. Those who remain in me, and I in them, will produce much fruit.  For apart from me you can do nothing.”  — John 15:5

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So that leaves us with a choice. We can do lots of work and expend energy and effort without Him and perhaps have some success to show for it but it will not be empowered by God and will not last. “Unless the Lord builds a house, the work of the builders is wasted. Unless the Lord protects a city, guarding it with sentries will do no good.” Psalm 127:1 (NLT) Or we can seek Him first in a genuine, authentic, Holy Spirit guided relationship.

We can do lots of work and expend energy and effort without God but it will not be empowered by God and will not last. – Michael Pfau

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We also see this in Matthew 6 in the Lord’s prayer where Jesus (states) that the way to commune with the Father is not rushing into His presence with a list of my needs (wants) or shooting up a quick prayer as I’m rushing out the door for work, school or another appointment. Rather it is to seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness. It is to acknowledge Him as Sovereign, the Ruler, and the King over my life today.

In his book Transforming Prayer, Daniel Henderson states, “Communion with Christ changes us. This is no superficial rearranging of the activities, approaches and attitudes of life. This is inside-out change. Transformation.” So let me challenge you to stop the distractions in your life and begin real self care. This starts with an authentic, intentional relationship with God.

I’d love to hear from you and what your experience with seeking God is like. Perhaps you’ve had some success in pursuing a relationship with God? If so, please let me know what has worked for you. I’d love to share any great ideas with others. Feel free to Email me or add your comments on my Facebook page.  The next article will pick up this theme and focus on relationships with significant people in your life.

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About the Author:

Michael Pfau, M.Ed, PCC, BCC, is President of Crossways Life Coaching, LLC. Michael is an author, speaker, coach, mentor and trainer. He partners with Christian professionals who feel trapped, overwhelmed and stressed by the demands of life to authentically and intentionally connect with God, themselves and others. Along with his own successful coaching practice, Michael is an instructor for the Professional Christian Coaching Institute, serves as an adjunct professor for the Assemblies of God Theological Seminary and Director of Coaching for the 8Q Coaching network. You can learn more about Michael at www.CrosswaysLifeCoaching.com.

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